With just a few days left until Christmas 2012 is upon us, many families will be either completely prepared for the big event whilst others won’t even have given it or a thought. Then there are those who don’t dare think about it because for them Christmas is a nightmare and they wish it would all go away.
Christmas is a big occasion where pressure builds on all of us to appear happy, care free and generous to a fault. In these hard times of austerity, many families have to cut back drastically on the festivities. For families living with autism spectrum conditions Christmas can be one of the most difficult times of the year.
‘Life is like an ever-shifting kaleidoscope – a slight change, and all patterns-alter’
How would you explain Autism to your grandparents? That was a question that I was asked just the other day. It may be possible if you look at it and explain it in a different way! Let’s talk in pictures.
So its official, your jelibaby has become a jelitot! They are on the move at last – so why do I sense many of you groaning
Progressing to the heady heights of jelitot what can you expect? Be prepared you may need a drink or a two handy! Jelitots have a habit of turning into jelihorrors if you are not careful
The life of one year old can be very high maintenance. Your baby is on the move and probably babbling or trying to chatter. Maybe they are already talking in sentences that leave you gasping or perhaps even ‘mum’ is a struggle? Communication is 80% non verbal, an amazing statistic that until fairly recently I was unaware of. Most communication comes from the unspoken word. Sadly that further complicates life for a jelitot who finds reading faces and body language very difficult.
Is your jelitot clapping their hands and joining in with nursery rhymes? Perhaps they only appear to like ONE in particular and enjoy hearing it repetitively? Do they copy the actions in rhymes such as ‘pat a cake’ or ‘round and round the garden’? Do they respond to their own name? Perhaps they hate being sung to and refuse to join in or show interest, perhaps they respond by crying and becoming quite distressed.
In this section we will look at Jelibeans through the years, starting off course with jelibabies! Bear with us as we will be adding articles regularly. Jeliteens will be the next article coming soon! What is it like for families? How do siblings cope? Rivalry? If you have any topic you would like covered, please contact us and we will do our best.
Having had 5 jelibabies of my own I feel quite well qualified to speak! A jelibaby is pretty easy to spot if you know what you are looking for!
So here we go. You may already be asking questions but you may not be sure why. Having a baby for the first time in particular is pretty overwhelming. None of us are trained for full time child care so most of us hit the ground running without any clue of what to expect.
Jelibabies are born jelibabies. Jelibean believe that the genetic link is very powerful and recent research strongly supports this. So if you think you may have a jelibaby, please remember it takes a jelibean to make one! Who else in your family has colourful streaks of eccentricity? Maybe it is you, maybe you and dad, or perhaps Auntie Molly with the clicky hip that collects porcelain pigs?
It’s the big step up to school and no one is more excited yet worried than poor mum. No one knows their jelijunior better than mum and the transition to school can harbour fears as well as hopes. Within the UK generally the line between mainstream and special schools falls when a child has an IQ test.
The systems are slowly changing and different criteria are now being tried. For this article we will concentrate on ‘mainstream education’. What if your jelijunior has hated Pre School and that was only 3 mornings a week! And they are still is glued to your right leg. How will they cope with a full day away from mum, new noises, smells and uniform? Will the teachers understand them? What happens if…….?